Saturday, August 31, 2013

Graduation and Goodbyes

August was a crazy month filled with last visits from amazing friends and family along with a growing list of to-dos before the big move. Here are some of the highlights:
:: The Last Ebert/Rigby Waffle Party: we held these sporadically over the last few years, but it's a tradition for our two families to meet together for Sunday waffles. This one was especially amazing because Spencer joined us before entering the Missionary Training Center the next day to start his two year mission for our Church.
 :: Dinner with the Hunsakers:
:: Dinner with the Fredleys and most of my mom's side of the family:
:: Last day at work: My last shift was cancelled at the Utah Valley Specialty Hospital (which meant I got to throw away my gross shoes a day earlier), but luckily there was an employee picnic the next day so I still got in my goodbyes. I've learned so much from the other nurses and staff over the past three years and I'm so proud I got to be a part of their team. We do amazing things at this hospital.
:: Robb's Graduation: My husband is wonderful. According to him, he's been ready to be through with school since Kindergarten and despite this he stuck it out, finished his Master's Degree, and found a job he's really excited for. His thesis title: Thermal Transport to Sessile Water Droplets on Heated Superhydrophobic Surfaces of Varying Cavity Fraction. Both our parents came down for the occasion and we're all ridiculously proud of this guy.
:: Potluck Breakfast with our Apartment: We have amazing people in our building and I'm going to miss them all.
:: Baby shower: My friend, Jamie, threw me a baby shower at Mother's group (right before leaving on vacation) a week before we moved. We had a great time and I'm so grateful for the friends I made from these weekly play dates.
:: Lunch with Tomoko: my friend Tomoko and her son came over to catch up and feed us lunch. She was my Beehive teacher in Oregon and is a wonderful person. Colby took his time warming up, but by the time she left they were buds.
:: Breakfast with Gonzales: Faiver taught us how to make arepas and Colombian style scrambled eggs (I'm converted) while Colby and Lilly hung out on the couch. It breaks my heart a little to know we'll be separating these two.
:: Our garden (and by that I mean our lone tomato plant) finally started producing.
:: A quick trip to see my childhood friend, Dayton, his wife and their newborn son:
:: Lots of visits to see Brett and Megan and Jory and Emily. Colby has awesome aunts and uncles.
:: A month of systematically cleaning our apartment to check off everything on our crazy landlord's list (thanks to Andrea and Kaitlin who helped clean and watch Colby so everything got done).
:: And then a sleep over at Grandpa Nielson's house once everything was packed up.

Sunday, August 4, 2013

House Hunters in Tucson

I've lived in an apartment for the last seven years (and for Robb it's been eight), so after reviewing our finances (woot for being debt free) and the crazy low interest rates, we decided to buy a house (and the prospect of really settling down before baby girl comes was a huge motivator too).

So we packed up our bags, left Colby boy with family (Jordan and Em for day 1 and Brett and Megan for days 2-4), and hopped on a high speed train from Provo to SLC. This was my first time leaving Colby for more than a 12 hour shift and it. was. hard...I probably would've broken down and cried, but we almost missed our train and the necessary sprinting was a good distraction.
I love the train. We sat on the top level and enjoyed views usually hidden to us when on the freeway (like the Jordan River). Our flight was almost unremarkable, until we boarded. The pilot announced there was a large amount of paperwork that needed doing before we could take off. I thought he was joking, but we sat there for an hour (Robb and I passed the time by playing Sudoku). We arrived in Phoenix fifteen minutes after our connecting flight was scheduled to leave, only to discover it was delayed. We ran from one end of the airport to the other, Robb with all the luggage, and me trying hustle my pregnant self along. We arrived, puffing, at the correct terminal, saw our plane, and begged the attendant to let us in. She refused. I guess once the plane is disconnected from the terminal the flight is considered on time, regardless of when the plane actually gets moving...so we sat and stared at our plane for a good 20 minutes before it took off. Our new flight left ninety minutes later. 
:: Day 1:Tucson is hot and MUCH greener than I expected. We found our hotel (clean and cheap with a somewhat sketchy elevator) and met, Tad, our real estate agent. In an hour he explained the finer points of buying a home, defined a bunch of unfamiliar terminology, and set the game plan for the next few days. This left the evening free, but in our exhausted state all we wanted was a light dinner (our airport pizza was very heavy) and bed.
So we went to Safeway and got breakfast essentials, snacks, and the dinner we desired. Eating salad without forks was entertaining (thankfully there were plastic cups in our room to put it in) and made the whole night feel a bit like camping out.

:: Day 2: We saw 13 houses in the Tucson suburb, Sahuarita, and left with two serious contenders: the European house and the Compass house. Tad encouraged us to give nicknames to the houses we liked most and then only focus on the top three. In the European house we met the owners (who needed to be present by request of their tenants) and the entire time we were there, she kept apologizing for the mess saying over and over (in regards to their tenants), "they're European" and "they live very differently than we do" and the Compass house simply had a tile compass in the kitchen...a little weird, but not a deal breaker.
Tad took us to lunch at the little place called Michah's and I fell in love with their green tamales.

Then we went to visit our friends, the Caltons, for the evening. We left that night well fed, reassured about life in Arizona, and excited to be near such a wonderful family again.

:: Day 3: We visited 4 houses in the city of Vale (only one was a contender) and then revisited our two favorites from the day before. Deep down we both knew which house we wanted, but a casual comment from Robb about squeezing four or five kids into a three bedroom house made me rethink our housing search and it took another hour before I felt comfortable enough to proceed. That evening we put in an offer for the European house
The whole process was much longer and required more paperwork than I expected (HGTV gave me unrealistic expectations).
That night we visited Lindy's on 4th for dinner. The food was decent (I had mac and cheese on my hamburger while Robb's was covered in an egg and tator tots), but on the whole the place was a little too edgy/crude for us and we probably won't go back.

:: Day 4: We gave them until 1:00 to respond to our offer and had nothing to do until then. So we went to El Guero Canelo for their legendary Sonoran Dogs.
And then to San Xavier for a tour of their gorgeous monastery, nicknamed the White Dove (we missed the actual tour by ten minutes, so we'll have to come back someday), when we heard the good news: offer accepted!
The house won't actually close until September 10th since there are still tenants living there, so it's back to Utah for another three weeks before this move becomes permanent.

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Reader's Digest Version of July

:: Robb turned 27,
got some birthday love,
and helped me make his birthday cake
(Sinfully Sinless Tiramisu or in other words, tiramisu without alcohol or coffee) 
Colby helped him open presents after dinner and I think I nailed it with the Lego set
:: I took Colby to the splash pad in Provo for Mothers' Group. He refused to go down until he saw his friend, Braxton, calmly splashing around. He cautiously stood up, swatted the water, and he was sold. I had to drag him away.
:: Robb planned date night and took us miniature golfing, black light style. 
Colby tolerated the experience and stole my ball after the first hole (so we took turns using Robb's)
I dominated.
:: We celebrated Colombian Independence Day with our neighbors, the Gonzales family
The food was amazing (and who knew guacamole and potatoes would be such a great combination?)
Lilly made sure Colby got enough to eat
and gave him several hugs and kisses on the way to the park
:: Hays Family Reunion: Robb's aunt and uncle rented three cabins down in Heber Valley for three days (although we opted out of sleeping there due to Colby's recent habit of waking up around 3:00 and my need for easy nighttime access to the bathroom). We made ice cream, chased butterflies, hiked, canoed around the lake, played minute to win it, heard wonderful devotionals, and ate some really spectacular food. I am so blessed to be a part of this family.
:: Colby used markers for the first and final time (at least for awhile) when I learned that "washable" didn't exactly apply to our kitchen table.
:: Our lone tomato plant is huge and has dozens of green tomatoes that will hopefully ripen before we leave.
:: And we're having a girl! Everything looked good on the ultrasound and we're still on track to meet her December 10th. Now we have to decide on a name...

Friday, July 12, 2013

12 on 12 in July


01. Pajama shirt was the victim of a water glass
02. Breakfast: Life cereal and a banana
03. My personal assistant
04. Prenatal workout
05. Another Colby self portrait
06. Date night inspiration
07. Lunch: Leftover Beef Stroganoff
08. Grocery Shopping
09. Some well deserved fruit snacks
10. Dinner: Chicken Fajitas with Cilantro-Lime Rice
11. Trip to the Library
12. Smoothies for our at home spa date (tasty, but a little crunchy--Colby threw a peach pit into the blender when we weren't looking and consequently there were lots of little brown chunks you had to spit out before swallowing)

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Fourth of July and How I Shaved a Month Off My Pregnancy

:: For the 4th of July Provo sends off a bunch of hot air balloons as part of the Freedom Festival and this year Robb and I wanted to be there for takeoff.  So as soon as Colby made a peep, we dragged our barely coherent son off to the Bulldog field (with portable breakfast)...only to find it cancelled on account of weather.
So we rushed back home and staked out a place for the Parade. We arrived around 7:00am, but the really dedicated ones camped out over night (illegally, as we weren't technically allowed to set up until 5:00am).
Friends made the time pass quickly.
Lilly and the Gonzales family
Kaitlin, our next door neighbor, and her daughter, Rylie


Jake and Sanita
Highlights of the Parade:
That night we went to Red Robin in honor of our first date five years ago.
Colby discovered the escalator.
We may have ridden it up and down continuously for 15 minutes.
Then we broke out our stash of free fireworks (Robb helped a guy set up his stand) and let them off in the park with the Kunz family. Colby and Rylie loved it, but not as much as Robb and Garen. There's something about males and fire that makes them act like excited 12 year olds and I don't think it ever goes away :)
:: Saturday I discovered the joys of pregnant sleeping with a body pillow and Colby endured a shopping trip.
:: Sunday was an epic Rigby/Ebert waffle night. Second to last...
:: Monday we spent the afternoon with Robb's parents who are in town and then joined them at Brett and Megan's for dinner. Before it took Colby a couple of hours to get reacquainted with Grandma and Grandpa Hays, but we started Skyping with them every week and this time he knew and loved them immediately. We also stopped by a local animal farm (Colbs enjoyed the pigs).
:: Tuesday Robb chatted with our relocation person. We now have a moving date, August 23rd, and suddenly Tucson is feeling much closer.  
:: I've felt overly large this pregnancy. I was showing at 11 weeks, wearing maternity clothes at 12, and this is me at 13.5 weeks:
I knew you popped out a little faster with the second pregnancy, but I felt this was a little ridiculous and was starting to feel a little self-conscious as person after person asked if I knew the gender yet and were shocked to learn I wasn't even in my second trimester.

And then I went in for an ultrasound. Turns out we had our dates wrong. I'm actually 18 weeks along, not 14. I'm still trying to figure how I messed that up and all I can come up with was my last "period" probably wasn't period at all, but a little ectopic bleeding. Anyway, I'm feeling completely justified in my size and a little relieved there weren't twins.

Baby Hays will be making her (or his, baby wasn't being cooperative at the ultrasound) way here around December 10th and we are so excited!